So you have decided to take the plunge– you are going to start homeschooling your kids. You’ve read everything you can get your hands on, you’ve bought all the cute and fun supplies, you’ve told your extended family and tried to calm their concerns, you agonized over curriculum and deciding if your 5 year old should start now or next year…
And now you think you are ready. Before you take that first big step (or really any time after you have already started) I would like to share the very best home education advice I ever got. It’s saved my bacon more times than I can count, and I dearly wish I could remember who originally said it.
“Start out slow, and then ease up”
OK, take a breath and let it out slowly…….. and then read it again.
“Start out slow, and then ease up”
For many home educators this is one of the hardest things… there is so much intensity about wanting to do it right and for many people that means doing it all.- if you are willing to put in the time to home educate your kids its a fair bet that you are pretty passionate about the results. And then our anxiety wants us to do it ALL THE TIME.
But doing it all, and doing it all right, and doing it all the time is not actually an attainable goal. If that’s what you are trying to do it will be overwhelming and really hard on the kids, and then they end up hating school. Ask me how I know? I did exactly this and had to learn a new way.
So I invite you to try a different way. If you have a little one just starting school, a few minutes a day is really all that is needed, One of my kiddos was very bouncy and ADHD and literally had an attention span that lasted 2 minutes when we started formal lessons at 6yo. We slowly expanded that to a more age appropriate level over the next few years but we did all the behavioral things to help, plenty of exercise, honored the child’s need to physically move, and slowly stretched it out, slowly adding subjects over weeks and months, and spreading them throughout the day.

If you have older kids and the school year is just starting, you don’t have to jump into every book on the first day. Some of our best years have started with a first day of school tea party, where we reviewed what we are doing for the school year i.e. “this year we are studying the Greeks, and will study life science and learn to use a microscope and write even better than we did last year” and then read some poems and then just let them look at the new books, do an easy assignment or two and then we went to the park.
The next day when we started we just did a couple subjects and every few days added some new subjects/activities until we were at full capacity. After a few days off we would start slowly again, although building back up faster if we had only been off a short time. Slow and gentle takes the bite out of having to get back to work!
Here are some more ideas for an easy start to your home schooling year:
10 ways to start easy this homeschool year


